She has shared her concerns that she is not happy with you. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here). YUP!!!!! We own a business together and she doesnt seem to take my part of the job seriously either. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. My wife behaved like this over the last year we have been trying to work things out, Ive not been a great husband over the years and have caused problems that didnt need causing, I cleaned up my act to be a better husband and father, I brought us a new house for afresh start and was doing it up when she started having an emotional affair, I think there was more to itss I found recipes from underwear shops such as Ann summers that she hasnt worn for me, then we separated for a while but neither of us would leave the kids, so we are stuck to together, she said she wants an open marriage where we can do what we want and bring the kids up together and that she loves me because Im the father of her children but I just think we are both wasting our lives now and that she will never love me like a wife should love her husband again and that she is probably waiting for the children to grow up to make it easier on leaving but by then we would of both wasted our lives as we are both in our mid thirties now, we dont really talk or do anything together she works long hours and as I work for myself Im always getting back for the children and she is always late back or out with friends, she said it would be easier if I felt like she did so that we could just live together and bring the children up but that isnt what I want, and all I really want is for us both to be happy weather that is us together or by ourselves which I thing is most likely now as I cant see us getting anything back she says we should get to a new place but what kind of place is that were there is no love in a marriage. It sounds like you should talk to her about how you feel. Have a great day, Ambivalent! IM TIRED AND MY HEART FUCKING DIES EVERY TIME I KNOW FOR MYSELF TO BE TRUE HOW YOU LIE STRAIGHT TO MY FACE. in our 4 years of dating we breakup more than 6 times each time for 2 or 3 months, the reasons for our breakups were always about her parents or some details about her parents she hided from me, but each time we came back for each other,(both of us never dated any one new between our break up) Until we decided to get married of course without the acceptance of her parents. Advice? Take this time to strengthen your relationships with your friends and family. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. I know I personally spent years asking my husband to listen to my concerns and fears for our future as a team. Have a great day, Terry! Determine what you want for your future and take appropriate action. And it was my fault that I was upset. Yeah me worked for several years and she got anything she want and would fly off the handle if i even was gone longer then i should of been. You know, its not true, but when shes very quiet I assume it has to do with me. If you are unsure, seek independent financial, legal, tax and/or accounting advice. Usually, this means no emailing and no business related phone calls. Here are five common reasons why for many people, nothing really seems to make them happy and what we can do to instantly feel better: 1. Stuck to your guns and dont go back. Those are both bad signals that tell you she doesnt plan on sticking around to take responsibility for those things together, with you. I read through a few of these comments and I was hoping that you could help me and tell me if Im seeing this right or not. Its been 2 years now of me trying to be better, and still no apparent improvement in the relationship. I&#39;ve been seeing him for 5 months now.This last two weeks have been awful.Him picking and choosing when he spoke,being short with me,cold etc He She doesnt share anymore, even when she started experimenting with spirituality which I feel you should discuss with your spouse. Well i think these signs are from both sides means from n e partner who is done with love to other either wife or husband. Trading cryptocurrencies is not supervised by any EU regulatory framework. Stalking is serious, and it may lead to physical harm or death. Sad, right? Oh, I have nothing to do with him anymore, not since our fight. Most of you guys actually don't want to feel better, (Sorry for the font choice by this person). Instead of hovering in misery, we must take a few minutes whenever we experience negative emotions and analyze them. Both depression and anxiety can affect sex drive. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. It sounds like you definitely have gone through a lot in your relationship and come out stronger on the other side. She hasnt even used her vibrator in a year herself which she liked so I know its true. 6. So often people feel down because they dont enjoy what they do. I can't be who you secretly fetishize. And yes, this is another person whos husband is uninterested in seeking counseling. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. I know that ever since I have made it a habit to read something inspiring on a daily basis, I automatically give daily happenings a more positive spin, and feel more enthusiastic and happy. Im sorry you need to let her go . You may be in an abusive relationship. Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. 22 Sponsored by The Penny Hoarder Have a great day, Cheryle! Of course you want your wife to focus on her life and her career. She decided she wanted to loose weight, we both like working out, but were not in the sap we used to be (Im 52 shes 40) she thinks shes overweight. It seems like all the activities I suggest repel them. He is a manipulative got. A relationship should be about equality and both parties doing their part. Thats why Im on the internet searching for answers. Have a great day, Tim! Have a great day, Donaldo! "The Black Market" available now : http://smarturl.it/TheBlackMarket http://www.riseagainst.com http://twitter.com/RiseAgainst http://facebook.com/RiseAgains. Exactly what it means. Having kids may put a damper on things for awhile, but if you notice that intercourse, cuddles or kissing stops altogether, it may be because your wife is no longer in love with you. She thinks shes ugly and old now even though I tell her shes not. Once again none of my business I know, but the thing that upsets me so much is that she couldnt even wait until I left before she started looking for someone new. Have a great day, Eric! Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Discover short videos related to i want nothing to do with you anymore on TikTok. I am in this position now. And finally realize that you can not force her to seek help, she might be unwilling to try. You feel as if theres no saving it, because you have already checked out of the relationship. If she does so, then remember that there is a benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion with her. I can't compete with girls in porn. I want nothing to do with your schemes. We both live together for the kids. It is clear that she does not respect your relationship. I am at my ends wit always wondering if I should through I. Towel. If you are abused your neglected, then you may want to take a second look at your relationship. Well tell me how would I know if my wife doesnt care anymore or if she may be with someone else occasionally? I wont look at him and I dont share anything anymore. Your suppose to work together and treat each other kindly. It is possible that her feelings for you have changed. It should never be only give. I am so dead inside to the point where I can barely even cry anymore. I want nothing to do with you. When you got married to each other, you both made vows to accept one another for who you are. Give her an opportunity to share herself with you. Im sorry for the long text i have noone to talk to because if i do i will be ridiculed and laughed at. See also: have, . You should consider whether you understand how an investment works and whether you can afford to take the high risk of losing your money. With a wife who not even remote in love with me. There seems to always be something on their minds. Have a great day, Marcel! She called back and wait. Try to stay focused on your own actions rather than pondering what a narcissist will or won't do. By just reducing my weekly meetings, limiting them with fixed finishing times, and planning them on the same day every week, I completely transformed my schedule and productivity. Have a great day, Stanley! so at the end i asked her to leave, and started the divorce process, which in my country takes more than 2 years, and more than 50 000$ to accomplish. So if she cheats, you can be sure she doesnt love you anymore. Recently we got into an argument and I decided to leave. Travis,it sounds like theres more to your story. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. please i need advice on what to do, Im confused again, i love her and she say she loves me but i dont trust her action, and Im extremely unhappy and lost. No I mean if it's toxic and a negative relationship then no, because you want to surround yourself with positive things and be happy, they don't make you happy when your around them stay away family or not. Im nothing but a errand running , cooking cleaning working father of 3 . I have no family here. worried about herself, it could be a bad thing. Evaluate the basics. Watch popular content from the following creators: addisyn packer(@addypacker), Hat <3(@dilf_x0), LyricAudios(@lyricaudios), kass(@kasslations), Soph(@soph_p19), aryy (@aryyxo_), 666(@foreverlovingyoux), Nia Headley(@nia.headley), Bellaarteagaa(@izabellarenne), user190903149369(@user190903149369 . It should never be only give. To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. Stuff him. To completely avoid or end all relations with someone or something. Thank you. Best of luck, Pasquale! After 20 years together Ive accepted it, she was raised in a loveless house, so I get that. You have made a decision to end the relationship. Check for other symptoms. Its only a bad sign if you notice she is obsessively talking about someone or spending time with them. To counter feelings of boredom, we must plan for new experiences on a regular basis. We both live together for the kids. When she stops doing that, its an indication she isnt as in love with you as you may have thought. Have a great day, Dav! Take this time to strengthen your relationships with your friends and family. Beatles Songs By Their Opposite . Allow your emotional energy to focus elsewhere. I have asked my old man to do counseling twice and its a no go on his end, all these signs listed that the wife no longer loves them (in my case) are the result of how Ive been treated by my husband these past two years. I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH CIVILIZATION. 2. Cryptocurrencies can fluctuate widely in prices and are, therefore, not appropriate for all investors. Thanks for the insight! May you're life be happier than mine. I don't want to see you. During redirect examination on Monday, an audio recording of Johnny Depp and Amber Heard arguing was played for the jury. Yes, but not if they don't want you as their friend anymore. Have a great day, Jessica! I dont wont to feel guilty losing or leaving my love of my life by not waiting for her to get better though. Yet im dealing with a spouse that has always been in control till one day I said enough. Communication and listening are crucial factors in maintaining any relationship. Every time she get in this fitness mode, I take a back seat to everything. In our 5 year marriage we are blessed with 2 kids, but when she is so much depressed she abuse me so much whether at home or in public, most a time she ask for a divorce which I think is not real because if I try to talk to her about divorce she usually show some remorse about what she ask for, I tried to understand her situation but she never see anything good in it. A hyperlink to or positive reference to or review of a broker or exchange should not be understood to be an endorsement of that broker or exchanges products or services. Past unresolved problems may also be cause for irritation of similar behaviors. He is a manipulative got. It is clear that your relationship is at a point where you need to look inward. This means seeing setbacks as short lived, non-pervasive events that do not reflect on who we are, and from which we can learn important life lessons that will allow us to excel in the future. Have a great day, Chris! I read this in hopes my husband will notice these signs. After 20 years of his parents coming first and physical abuse and laziness, i only stay for childcare so i can work to support him. A partnership is when you communicate,listen and acknowledge. Here are five parenting things you can do to cope and maybe even reclaim some lost real estate with your kids when it seems they don't want to be with you. Make a decision about what you feel is viable and appropriate. So, slowly and gradually we give up, we care less, we talk less, and eventually once the person is out of heart ..he gets out of love too.. and mind it..woman once decide its over..nothing on Earth can bring her back!!! Decide what actions you believe are acceptable in this relationship. It is possible that you feel the same about her interests. Action step: Commit to improving your most important relationship and think of one weekly activity that you could do with this person. She is likely confused or uncertain about her feelings regarding your relationship. Have a great day, Joe! She may be interested in ending this relationship. If you find that the relationship is untenable, then focus your emotional attention on your children, family, and friends. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. That is excellent advice. Dump and Block on everything and be glad you.found out who.he is now. Like when the cars go from a standstill to a crawl and we breathe a sigh of relief only to get snagged in another snarl of traffic up ahead. What do you do when in arguments she never wants to accept responsibility for her actions, but expects only you to apologize for yours. I have nobody. Many people feel unhappy because they simply dont take care of themselves. Strengthen your relationships with your family and friends at this time. Ive gone to counseling alone to change how I see things, weve gone together, but now I think its time he shows he wants this and goes to therapy on his own. Without them, the connection has no choice but to crumble, because it no longer has a foundation to stand on. They either lack enjoying a circle of close friends and family members or their relationships lack any meaningful depth. She just let me PAY ALL THE BILLS AND DEBTS and keep saving her own money with a padlock in the cabinet. I say this because it sounds a lot like me when I checked out. Most women, not all, are pretty emotional creatures. She cant even look in my eyes without feeling sad. Has she suddenly built an emotional barrier between you? They do this in three ways: First, they take regular breaks throughout their day, to refresh and recover from their daily tasks. In curomious if these things could still apply if we have children and seems to be more interested in being around her stalker. And that theres no passion or any desire for sex after 30 years . It will just end up hurting you both. These habits become addictive and rob our time and energy to engage in more fulfilling activities. This is also how they overcome feelings of self-doubt. I realized then that if bI had to explain that I love her and care how she is doing, that its me who didnt get the message till I realized later that she doesnt love me anymore. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here). It is also possible that you could just become friends who live together instead of being spouses. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. He does not respect you. I don't want anything to do with you. i thought maybe the stress is gone now she understand better her mind is clear so i accepted to stop the divorce process and we decided to get back together after clearing things up between us (what i mean by that is that we discussed in almost every aspect whats acceptable and whats not and how to avoid conflicts and miss understanding). That may sound harsh, but the reality is that there is no reason for us to talk anymore. When you are married, you should be focused on both people involved in the relationship. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. Trading history presented is less than 5 years old unless otherwise stated and may not suffice as a basis for investment decisions. So if you notice that your wife is refusing to fix your marriage, when you make it apparent to her that something is wrong, then it may be time to accept she doesnt want to make it better. She may feel that your hobbies get in between you and her. Your dog might not be behaving like his usual self because he is experiencing some internal pain. You can redefine your relationship on terms that work for both of you instead of just being a standard married couple. However, she has decided that she is no longer able to maintain a relationship with you. We feel burned out and exhausted Many people feel unhappy because they simply don't take care of themselves. It will take a year to pay off debts, in that year u am going to make him upgrade the house like I want and then he can leave. I agree, dont assume. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. But if you notice that your wife is suddenly only worried about herself, it could be a bad thing. Please share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. The walls I had been building up helped me with my decision and I was confident that I was doing the right thing. When she stops doing her part and puts all the responsibility on you, its clear that she no longer cares about stressing you out or making your life more difficult. If you cant know and love yourself, how could you possibly expect someone else to do so? Soon I want nothing to do with the Internet anymore or even modern civilization. I still dont know what to do. For the word puzzle clue of i want nothing to do, the Sporcle Puzzle Library found the following results. Once we understand what is affecting our well-being, we can then commit to simple habits. When I gave bher the coffee, her response was why would I do that. There is no reason for you to continue to think about maintaining a romantic relationship with her. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. I am left at home with the dog to keep me company and feel sad she doesnt love me enough to want to try to save marriage. Thats not very common in a healthy, happy relationship. There is no one way to manage these hurtful experiences; we can only find the path that works for us. I find life is becoming more confusing. Its okay to be worried if she starts making her friends and work a priority over you. And what happens when we feel bored? It seems that you need to make a decision about the future of this relationship. Past performance is not an indication of future results. 19/01/2020 21:48. but can you tell me what I did wrong ? If you are stuck in these types of thoughts all the time, it means you are still emotionally and mentally enmeshed. Im confused and i cant stand this life but i cant stand living without her. What Does Seeing a Dead Person Alive in My Dream Mean? Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. I have nooneifeel comfortable talks no to ab this. People pushing that we should be equal, so I feel we should both work to achieve or goals, but then if you partner wants to live life as it used to be, with one person bringing home the bacon and the other doing as they wish, then what am I to do, is it my duty to push these new ideas of equality, am I allowed to enjoy the role of bread winner or does that make me a bad person. If you are behaving in a secretive manner, then these feelings may be reflections of your decisions. Soon I want nothing to do with the Internet anymore or even modern civilization. I will live through one more day. Im One of Those Husbands who wonders,My wife says she loves me.But if You love someone shouldnt you be aware of there Likes and dislikes .Shouldnt you make some gesture that says I see You.My hobbies are ELECTRONICS,PHOTOGRAPHY,READING,I enjoy,Sci-Fi,History Channel, Saturday Night Live skit comedies.She enjoys Lifetime Movie network,Soap Operas,Game show Network, I know she collects Dolls and Puppets.In our 9 years of marriage she has never brought Anything to me because she thinks Id like it,if I see something which I think shed like,I buy it or ask her how would she like that sometimes she says yes or sometimes no,She complains because of my Electronics Hobbies -computers,stereo wires,Projector screen.Maybe shes not into it,But if you love someone or Care for Them shouldnt you Care. Action step: Eliminate unnecessary meetings and schedule specific time slots in which you check your emails. Suddenly hearing a lot about Jerry from work or the nice guy at the gym is always a bad sign. Cheating. So if you notice that your wife is refusing to fix your marriage, when you make it apparent to her that something is wrong, then it may be time to accept she doesnt, The Most Alarming Signs Your Husband DoesnT Love You Anymore. CHANGE DIRECTIONS Stuff him. If we dont have this kind of a network, we must start mingling in settings where it becomes easy to meet our kind of crowd, like for example mastermind groups, seminars or even sport clubs. Its extremely important to remind yourself not to jump the gun when it comes to deciding if all is lost. Answer is nothing. If you want a change, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Remember this: when a woman stops bringing up issues within the marriage(even small ones), shes given up and bad things are bound to happen, even if it takes years. I dont want to hear his voice. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. However, what distinguishes successful people from everyone else is that they overcome their doubts by nevertheless taking consistent actions towards specific outcomes. Do an easy chore. I cant even start telling you how much more productive I have become ever since I only check my emails 2-3 times a day. It also means generating the kind of momentum from our daily successes that will allow us to feel more confident and competent and believe in ourselves again. Feelings of depression may cause an individual to think negative thoughts like "I don't want to do anything with my life." It's not uncommon for people to report feeling symptoms of depression after major life upheavals like relocating to a new city for a job or the birth of a child, which may results in post-partum depression for a parent. This last two weeks have been awful. my wife cheated on me about three years ago, at the time we had two children and i had a job and she didnt. Maybe if they do something that really irks you, but if you notice that shes suddenly irritated with you constantly it could mean that she isnt enjoying your presence. Give her the opportunity to share herself with you as well. However, if one of the spouses loses their feelings for the other, its common that they will stop actively listening to them. Have a great day, Ron! Have a great day, Ed! You shouldnt have any high or unrealistic expectations about your partner. A healthy marriage consists of two people always doing their best to hear each other out when one of them has a gripe. However, when a woman doesnt want to open up to you about whats on her mind, its more of a critical sign than when a man does it. Determine what you want for your future. Bring your children around these people to help them become more comfortable with each other. You are right, it is always best to allow negative influences to remain outside of your life. These habits will lift our spirit and help address any unmet needs in order to be happy. Have a great day, Martin! No more chatty Cathy for me. Question that I have, is that I keep trying to fix issues she has had with my actions (for the record, I have always been faithful, just am not a very outwardly emotional person), but its never enough. Its a really hard life leaving in the same house but we both love our kids so much that we cannot finalize the divorce. Cheating is always a sign that someone has stopped loving you. Her feelings toward you have changed. Some links are affiliate links. Have a great day, Stanley! Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. After 20 yrs of trying to get her needs met from you and getting ignored , dismissed, not taking it seriously hurt her over and over until the love , hope and respect she had for you died. Suddenly we avoid doing the tasks that would help us experience more joy and success. I drove 35 miles to give my wife her favorite cup of coffee because she was tired, but mainly do do something nice for her. About Press Copyright Contact us Creators Advertise Developers Terms Privacy Policy & Safety How YouTube works Test new features Press Copyright Contact us Creators . The other night she said that she wanted to talk so we did during the course of the talk we got to arguing again and I was brought back into the cycle of thinking that i had just escaped from. What if your wife says she loves you because you love her. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. If you notice that she starts to take from you more than she gives, it's a bad sign. She has gotten to the point where she had an affair for more than a year i caught her about two months into the affair begged her tried to show her that uts not worth it talked suggested therapy but it still went on to the point were she got a call from her boyfriend while in bed, she kissed me on the forehead and went to spend the night with him. This is why we witness so many successful individuals who nevertheless feel miserable and depressed. What To Do When You Don't Want To Do Anything Feeling unmotivated or apathetic towards life can happen to the best of us from time-to-time and can especially affect young adults. I dont cheat nor try to make him jealous, but he has hurt me to my coreoften. Not only that, but once their feelings have been hurt, they blame all persons of the opposite sex. Otherwise you would essentially be in a relationship with a very good friend, instead of a lover. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Take this time to become closer to your friends and family. Do I just look at black and white and walk away without her confirming shes no longer in love? So, if your wife suddenly goes dead silent, be worried. I am ready to forgive you but I will never be ready to allow you back into my world. One way my wife and I do this is by going on a weekly date night and make sure we have an amazing time together, free from any other distractions from our daily lives. In the recording, Depp can be heard. You want him so much and you want to turn the tables . Decide what you believe is acceptable for your relationship. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. 73 views, 4 likes, 0 loves, 0 comments, 23 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Masjid As Sunnah An Nabawiyyah North Miami. may include slamming doors if the person you don't want to be involved with shows up at your house. Speak directly and honestly with her about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Imran! Give her an opportunity to share herself with you as well. I now want her to work as hard as I do, I dont want to hear of how she feels tired because she got up so late at 11:30, I dont want to know that she doesnt feel bored just going for walks and working out while Im at work. We always appreciate when members of our community support each other. CFDs and other derivatives are complex instruments and come with a high risk of losing money rapidly due to leverage. 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